Weeks into my first semester at San José State, I refuse to get involved with campus life at all.

When I transferred to SJSU, I had expectations that I would join clubs, make friends, and immerse myself in the vibrant community of college life.

My experience at community college was the same as now because my main focus was just getting through classes and transferring. 

I didn’t really get involved much outside the classroom – I’d usually go to class, get my work done, and head home. 

So yes, I felt the same way then – I didn’t see the point of joining clubs or attending events.

But after transferring, I’ve started to see that involvement isn’t just about extracurriculars; it’s about creating experiences, making friends, and finding a sense of belonging that can make college more meaningful.

At the time, I didn’t think I was missing anything, but looking back, I realize how much student involvement could’ve helped me build connections and feel more a part of the campus community.

However, like most students, I juggle responsibilities outside of school – work, commuting and family obligations that make it impossible for me to make time for campus life. 

In 2020, the percentage of part-time college students who were employed was 74% according to the National Center for Education Statistics (NCES) webpage. 

Whenever I talk about not getting involved on campus to friends and family, they tell me I’ll regret it later. 

They see campus life as an essential part of the college experience.
Getting involved with campus life has many benefits, including better grades and outcomes, according to a webpage from College Data. 

One of the outcomes of campus life is making friends, according to the same source. 

College is a great time to try new things.

By getting involved in college and making the effort to meet others and participate in college life, you are likely to open up new opportunities for yourself and have a more rewarding college experience.

However, I see it as a choice and one I’ve made with clear priorities in mind.

I don’t see the issue with keeping my focus on academics – going to class, doing the work and heading home.

SJSU has more than 350 student organizations, ranging from academic and cultural groups to recreational and service clubs according to the recognized student organizations webpage

Getting involved in a club is one of the easiest ways to meet people and feel connected to campus life.

I’ve heard so many people talk about how vibrant campus life is, but I can’t really say the same for myself. I haven’t explored much of SJSU beyond my classes.

For me, getting through a packed day of classes and responsibilities means extracurricular activities feel like luxuries I can’t afford.

When I see classmates bonding at club events or celebrating wins on intramural teams, there’s a part of me that thinks, “That could have been me.”

I sometimes wonder if I’ve missed out on friendships or connections that might help me down the line.

I’ve even spoken to my friends and family friends, and almost all of them tell me the same thing – “I need to make the most of my college years because once they’re gone, they don’t come back.”

College doesn’t have to be defined by crowded events or late-night mixers. 

It can also be defined by persistence, discipline and keeping your eyes on long-term goals.

But I’d rather own the way I’ve chosen to spend my time – focusing on academics, maintaining my outside commitments and making selective connections that matter to me.

For me, my connections haven’t come from campus life but from work, family and the friendships I maintain outside of school.

Research even shows that older adults with close friendships and solid support systems tend to live longer than those who are more socially isolated, according to an Oct. 15, 2024, Mayo Clinic Article.

I’ve walked by plenty of clubs on campus and kept going because none of them seemed appealing at first glance.

I get that students might think I’m judging the book by its cover – but if nothing sparks my interest, why force it?

Students can also find programs that focus on leadership, career exploration, and health and wellness.

But for me, pushing myself into activities I don’t genuinely care about would feel forced.

Would I encourage every student to skip campus involvement? Not at all. 

For many, it’s an invaluable part of their growth and identity.

But I think it’s equally valid to acknowledge that opting out doesn’t make someone less of a student, less ambitious or less invested in their future.

Not being involved in campus life at SJSU isn’t about indifference – it’s about priorities.

College can serve different purposes for different people, and that’s okay.

My experience is quieter, less flashy, but no less meaningful.